Five Steps to summarize success in life….

People like me who have lost their vision and even have stopped searching for their qualities and path on which they need to thrive can get help or idea from this article to find their destination or can start thinking to move on.

Five words or steps which has everything for you either materialistic or non materialistic will be covered within. It fulfills your all needs and lead you to successful and a complete human being. this topic has huge depth which is impossible to touch writing 500 words but i will try to define them better. It covers all.

Step 1 : Communication

Beginning of all stories or episodes of our life is communication and it requires skill. the way you involve your heart, mind and soul during communication with anyone. silence is also a part of communication when you do talk to yourself. Balanced & effective Communication has vital role in our success. you speak effective or less or sweet will be considered wise otherwise talkative. How do you talk to your boss, business partner,  colleagues, family, friends etc. this first step leads you to higher level of success. Think about it.

Step 2: Personality

It covers so many things like your physical appearance, diet, mental development, behavior, hobbies, thinking & dealing strategies, habits, dreams, soul development. it indicates to focus on all aspects related to personality. we need to work on it for sure to be successful in the world. for example, any interview has importance of your appearance and then about your knowledge.

Step 3: Knowledge

Knowledge is power as i have experienced. it can be means but not an end. mostly we ignore in collecting knowledge and we believe that internet has abundant knowledge. servers have huge capacity to store unlimited gigs of data. Do we really need to learn and understand things on other side machines are doing same as it.

Step 4: Experience

Experience is the final establishment over the knowledge. experience without knowledge is totally impracticable. experience has its own pace but knowledge play as a base role for solid experience. These are parallel but strongly interconnected as well. for example, did you see any engineer or doctor who didn’t go to school or college or university for decades and without internship and practice for several years.

Step 5: Network

In other words, people near you lead environment then surroundings lead to company of good or bad, company lead to thoughts further lead to ideas, ideas converted to actions, actions become habits, it is the formation of life. your network will lead you to your destiny and somehow destiny is already decided anyways. It included responsibilities towards family , friends, colleagues and neighbors. It really matters where do we spend & talk and watch everyday.

The sequence is symmetric and if we implement it after getting its depth. we need to be perfect in following strategy. need to have proper communication skills with full personality (combination of all qualities), must have knowledge in your stream (whatever it is) , apply your knowledge do practicum which help you to make money and further network deals with your rise in all above steps.

 

The war for silence,, only peace..

There is a silent night after a crowded and noisy day. There is a struggle or rush for day time activities so that we can create peace at the night time. waves are so high and having sound when sea level increases and finally calm down for long time. The chirping birds only be available in morning if you want need to get up in the morning.

There is a cycle of nature connected through so many things all around. To achieve anything there is a hardship. it is not less than any warship. sleep with hunger seems impossible. for a healthy sleep, there is a struggle for work to buy food, maintain our inner happiness so that we can sleep well without worries & with dreams.

Similarly, there is a war between you and inner peace. The silence is a supporter for us to achieve that peace. who is between you and peace? there is something which is an illusion. something which does’t exist but we gave the authority to survive. it happens from unclear mind. when we are directionless and vision-less. It needs to be clean. It grows automatically but we need to do something which can prevent us from it.

Nature is doing its part. in nature there are couple of things which are happening automatically because it was deigned in that way. To get dirty you need not to do anything, there will be bad smell from your body soon but you need a bath to maintain cleanness. if we talk about mind, to maintain it positive you have be enthusiast and move towards your goal. once you loose vision or stop working, you will be directionless and negative. If water is still it will give birth to algae and foul smell. On the other side flowing water is always fresh and drinkable. For good relations, you have to spend more time and sacrifices but for bad relations we do nothing. it automatically faints.

There is a struggle , effort , hardship for anything which you need and want to maintain. Do you have garden in your backyard? your garden needs water, fertilizers and your precious time with love and care to grow as you want. To maintain inner peace or keep it forever with you, you need a war with your mind as well you need wall to protect that peace.

Peace is your power. strong wall means you have to be strong enough to protect your inner peace by doing something on regular basis so called meditation because as i told you nothing good gonna happen automatically. For peace, you need to be enough focused inside. It is inside not outside. As much as we will be inwards and upwards, we can enjoy higher level of peace.

Indian won Govt with Majority, 2019

I would like to congratulate everyone. Indians have played vital role in selecting one government with majority. In fact, government with majority is required if we want our nation to compete with world. After this win, i have no doubt that India will be debt free and no. one country in coming years in the field of technology, finance, education and all others.

The point need to focus is the majority. Every government plays vital role and they want to improve the country through different parameters. Opposition mostly hurdles the decisions and delays occur. It would be the best government if they have majority so that they can work in one direction.

I really respect our Prime minister, Narinder modi and we all have seen how did he work in last five years. we appreciate his efforts, hard working, honesty and sincerity towards his duties. I want to wish him good luck that god give him healthy life so that as he is serving his country can continue. His continuous restless working will lead india in coming years.

In exit polls and finally in results we have seen how Indians unconditionally support government whose head is our honorable prime minister. At the end i will say congratulate to the democracy our country and all ministers, leaders who were involved in making our country more strong.

 

Humans and human made computers,,,

God made computers can be defined as Human beings and human made electric device can be called as electric computers.

If we think deeply will be able to know how many similarities we do have and mix and match available among components.

The human computers invented by supreme power is not the new invention. It was before he created the world. His systems are forever. No change and no upgrade required for his creativity. we can add millions of points which we think have similarity but truth is there is no match in universe with which we can compare his creativity.

We do not have words to explain how perfect he is, was and will. we are away from him is the only reason, we are imperfect. He is the only perfect and will be forever. There is no match for his creation and it seems how valuable is his nature. The power supply for his nature is only Love.

The answer for any question can be only “LOVE“. The love he has for us. the love for which he has created everything for us. The love due to which he is omnipresent. not at all separated from all of us.

Feel Proud to celebrate Mother’s Day,, 2019

A baby who is born because of mother. A baby who came and lighten your house. She became daughter and sister. further she improved her designation with responsibilities and become wife and again a cycle completed and become mother. mother become grandmother and that mother associated with so many other names like nani, etc

Relation of mother is the most common relation with everyone because we can not come to this world without mother. It vary for how long do we have time to spend with mother will be decided by destiny. What is the importance of this relation and how this relation being originated?

Two days before the mothers day i came to know how difficult is for any mother to give birth to her child? A beautiful princess got birth and came home. To become mother is the worst pain ever i have seen in thirty years of my life. the relation to whom we give least value i.e MOM which is always for granted. the relation we disobey is with mother only.

In fact, the relation on which we frustrate the most is the most typical relation and even saints use the example of this relation as the most lovable and giving relation in this selfish world. Need to add value for the person who has special spot in your world.

The unbearable pain which has been bared by mother can never be in words. It is beyond all imaginations especially for men. How beautiful relations are with mothers, grandmothers , sister, aunties, daughters etc. what should be the level of respect they actually honor? I don’t have words. How can anybody in the world can even think about rapes, female foeticide, killing for dowry, inequalities and all other social evils.

The Great gift to everyone in this world is Mother because she is the creation of this world. Respect and love them as much as we can. This is the only way to convey thanks to God for giving this beautiful life supporting Power. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY

 

 

Is Canada Safe for Our Kids?? Naahh,,

Kids are the most important part of every parent life. kids become member of family. Every Family plays prominent role to all communities and contribute to make best city as well province and finally form a beautiful country. This is the one side of the coin or so called IDEAL situation but impractical and other side of the coin is practical situation i.e full of fear. Either we are paying attention to this or not doesn’t resolve issue.

I am 30 years old and expecting baby next month. I am glad to share this information with you but scared as well when i see the kids addicted to phones and teens having cigarette in his/her hands. there are few dating apps for teens like Yubo and so many others, if you visit, will be able to see how badly they smoke and addicted as well.

What causes tension or worry about kids? No any parents want their kids to be chain smoker, Drug addictive, Drunkard and Marijuana consumer etc. Open availability force kids to let them try once how does it taste. once they try, they become addicted quickly. Awareness among parents and children is must. There must be awareness programs which should be mandatory for parents and kids.

Is Time and Love can fill the gap between parents and kids? we have to accept that kids need proper attention and time from parents. Parents never stand for either mother only or father only. It means both. It has great sense within. Parents need to understand that the solution should be search out before kids become bad teens.

Is Government responsible for this disaster? This plays vital role. it doesn’t mean government is doing nothing. I need more focus from government institutions because Country’s future depends on youth. If youth is week and it will be hard for all of us to lead Canada in top 10 countries in the world. As we know power of any country depends on focused youngsters. Any addiction leads to distraction. It scatters concentration and divert from goals. i believe this topic is much more important than climate changes and other matters. Who will enjoy climate if all are addicted so badly and unable to survive.

Inflation playing role to destroy future of canada! Obviously Yes. It is the worst scenario. Parents are running for their expenses and nourishing their kids. Kids are addicted to ipads, iphones and like to stay alone. Kids become teens and again addicted to smoke , drugs and alcohols. As hard parents do work, they are moving so hard for basic necessities and at last they find them self homeless and find their kids addicted and in big debts then government make big policies to clear their debts and circle going on.

Solution to this problem? Documentary videos are required. Those videos must have message to avoid it. It must be displayed in cinemas. It should be discussed with them on daily basis, As we do prayer everyday. we need a subject to educate them. i would like to share few references with you from the organization named Radha soami satsang beas who are working in this field with full devotion. We can take help from them to give directions to our next generations. I am sure Canada can be the addiction free country.

Addiction free Canada: Awareness Program By RSSB Organization. 

 

Does anything matters in our life?

These are commonly used sentences like i don’t care, i never mind or it doesn’t matter or we usually say it doesn’t bother me. Usage of these slang has been increased a lot in last decade. we want to run out of situation. we try to keep remember our mind to make distance from troubles and it is more convenient to stay away. In nutshell or the fact is nothing matters.

Where we born, grown up, studied , job, parents, relatives, health, rich, poor nothing according to your choice. For sure, this is what we sow. We were never asked for choices. On the other hand we say we do not care for whatever is happening. There is something common. We were careless before and after doing karma. it is called repetition without learning.

I never want to focus on what what we are doing or have done in past. question is what really matters to us? It is huge mixture we have inside with huge unrealistic stories and karma. I will say nothing matters except one thing. Does your soul listen supreme melody and see the supreme power full of light and sound? if we qualify above statement. i agree nothing matters and i also don’t care for the rest.

How important is to listen the divine melody? This is the only way to get free from rest of the world. Right now we are handcuffed with millions and billions of  uncountable chains. No way to think broad because even mind has limitations. It can also think under the shadow of Karma. Only one option left i.e Meditation. Love it, take it, breathe it, drink it, dream it, sleep it, wake up with it.

 

70th Republic Day 2019

This day help us to know real state in which supreme power held by the people  and their representatives or we can say a group with certain equality between its members. This day in actual a reminder for us to rethink about which is real or permanent state of human being. who is the supreme power? and who are their  representatives?

Would  like to clear, these governments who are ruling a piece of land can’t be the supreme power. There is only one power so called supreme power running the world i.e whatever you like to call. In the form of saints are their representatives of that power. These are real or truthful representatives who are working day and night to keep us on track so that we can achieve that real state which we will neither loose before nor after life.

Which would be the republic day for our soul? The day we have initiated remind us to follow the path given to us. That day will create history for real freedom. Our real journey begins from that time. We are unable to calculate years of our imprisonment. We are unaware of previous births. Our intentions are outwards but it should be inwards to see the real democracy.

Have you ever plan to attend parade for your republic life? The real parade, which shows respect , love, faith for supreme power is meditation. Extreme love for father and attend Bhajan Simran, Sewa and Satsang give us passport to attend parade for supreme power. Get motivated and stay alert to fight for freedom. “Happy Republic Day 2019”

Happy New Year 2019

Exchange of wishes is kind of ritual. Every year we celebrate and wish each other with three words “HAPPY NEW YEAR“. we are saying that your new year should be full of happiness. In fact, we do not have even feel for new year. We usually say, every day is a new day, new month and new year and we do not celebrate or give special preference to new year.

Our myths will lead to time waste and unable to get an opportunity to celebrate and start life again. This is the way people celebrate it externally and expand business. This is same around world. we need leave or holidays just as ceremony. we don’t like to go for work. Try to celebrate with family but it is not true because we got up late morning then Facebook, Youtube and list of applications for chat like whats app.

Truth is,we don’t have time for our self and we are wishing happy new year to others. If i don’t even feel happiness , how i can spread among others? Try happiness first then share it. Give time to your self. It will be the beginning of realization for love , truth and happiness. It further leads to successful human being.

Every moment is new and valuable for us. we can enjoy , plan, implement and lead to happy and meaningful. We can lean from where our real journey begins. we have wasted unlimited clocks and births. let us glimpse from last year new year 2018. Did we try to change our life. Change is a small word but have a meaning of superpower.

Plan your year ahead and it will lead you towards success when it will be implemented. We need watchdogs to track every moment and make sure every moment is meaningful and productive. Make your new year more strong and powerful and get some resolution of new year 2019. Happy new Year 2019. May God bless you with balanced life.

 

Who is successful human being??

Need to understand the difference between success and victory. We merge two concepts who have huge differences. I would like to put my point of view to easily understand so that we can implement in our life to get succeeded.

Victory is based on particular work like we both are playing football and i got victory to do a goal against you. For more understanding, i would like to take more examples to touch its depth. we participated in drawing competition and i lost and you got first position in that competition so you got victory not success.

Success doesn’t reply on small events. we believe having more money is a proof of having  success. Success is the overall grading of your life. Success is the integral part of small victories but it must be balanced.

life is a combination of so many events like schooling, childhood, ideal son or daughter, teenager and good & bad habits which lead to balanced life. How success differently lead to life rather than victory? Success is basically how quickly you solve problems of your life to make it balance. Victory is a signal of having one thing in access in your life. you got victory in career because you have excess of money. Having only money doesn’t lead to successful life.

To be a successful human being, it is mandatory to understand the difference between victory and success. Success leads to happiness and love among all.

In cooking, we add water, spices, vegetables, pulses etc in exact proportion to make it delicious then it leads to delicious dish. Same is happening in life. if your career or money is highly dominated on you so that you don’t have time for your freedom, family, health, soul, parents etc you are not moving towards success. Success resides within you which lead to your journey, happiness and love.